Wear what makes you feel comfortable. For some people, that means wearing something strappy and bondagey on top of their clothes, and for other people, that might mean letting a cute bra strap peek out from under a dress. But what matters most is finding a way to incorporate this aesthetic into a style that works and feels natural for you. For me, I love wearing loungewear, like robes and camisoles, as outerwear. That feels natural to me. So be willing to experiment until you discover what works for you.